bart_calendar (bart_calendar) wrote,
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Flirting

Something that comes up on my LJ Friendslist and my Facebook feed a lot is guys saying they had no idea that a girl was interested in them until she'd finally given up and then their female friends saying to them "Dude, it was clear she wanted to fuck you! I swear that guys need us to wear flashing lights on our tits saying "I want to fuck" before they get the message."

Then I also see a lot of girls saying "I've been trying to hit on him for weeks and he doesn't seem to get the message. What they fuck do I have to do in order to get him to know I'd be up for some sexytimes?"

Now I'm curious if this just happens to a few of my friends or it's a general part of the human condition - so tell me what you think from your personal experience. (Yes, this is heterocentric, but I think that the gay and lesbian dynamics on this would be very different.)


Poll #1826070 Sexytimes

Guys: Can You Generally Tell If A Girl Is Hitting On You Or Do You Have Trouble Picking Up On The Signals?

Yes
2(5.7%)
No
27(77.1%)
Other
6(17.1%)

Girls: Do Guys Seem Generally Clueless About Whether You Are Hitting On Them?

Yes
23(67.6%)
No
5(14.7%)
Other
6(17.6%)
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