July 7th, 2014

Lessons From A Crime Story

Sometimes there are stories that are really good at explaining why you need to be sane when doing kinky stuff. Don't get me wrong - there is nothing wrong with being kinky, you just have to be sensible about it. Here is a good story that demonstrates exactly that point.


Woman gets in contact with long lost male cousin.

Cousins realize they both like booze, drugs and rope play.

After drinking, smoking pot and doing crack they wake up in bed with rope hanging from the ceiling and no clue how the rope got there.

They then decide to drink some more and add valium to the mix.

Man wakes up with dead cousin hanging above the bed and no clue how she got there.

All of this could have been avoided.

1. If your kink is dangerous do not add drugs and alcohol to the scene.

2. Rehearse scenes well in advance before you try them out in real life.

3. If you wake up with a rope above your bed and no clue how it got there that is a sign you need to really make sure you stay sober with your kink partner.

4. Always keep ropes away from the neck.

5. I'd say "always have a safe word" but am not sure it would have  helped in this situation.

Another Lesson - Don't Feed The Trolls

Why not feed a troll? Well, the comments section yesterday on a Gawker article about expensive grapes is a good lesson on what can happen if you feed the trolls.

Link is probably NSFW for many companies. To sum up the troll feeding leads to every imaginable racial, sexual and ethnic slur ever created by mankind  and lots and lots of images of men licking each other's assholes with witty captions such as "faggit", "Asian ass licker" and "trany cocksucker."